Easy points!!! Help!!!!!!!?

U are MARRIED why are u even entertaining this guy? Are u going thru a seperation? Divorce? If not then u are a HORRIBLE wife and u deserve whatever the other guy gives u. The point is U ARE STILL MARRIED. U NEED NOT DEAL WITH ANOTHER MAN UNTIL U HAVE GOTTEN A DIVORCE!!!! Clearly if he is disengaged with u at times he is not interested in the way u would like because he knows U ARE MARRIED.....maybe he is a decent guy and u are misinterpreting his friendly demeanor because u are lacking attention from your husband. IDK??? But u need not go there with the other guy it will only lead to heart break.....TRUST. Leave it alone girl! Karma is a B&^%$.....know what I mean?